Thats what I told one of my girlfriends at lunch the other day – “Yes, I penetrated him with a Strap-On…”
She came to me in confidence, to ask me about something her husband had asked her to do. He had asked her to put on a strapon dildo harness that he had bought, and bend him over the edge of the bed to fuck him with the dildo.
She was a bit worried to say the least, not so much with the act it seemed, but more with what it meant to her husband. She asked me if it was common for a man to want this, (somehow I have become the one in my group of friends that everyone comes to to talk things out and get advice) and I told her that yes, it was common for a man to want to be violated with a strap-on, and it was not a clue that he was gay.
I then told her a bit about my experience, how I had first come to my husband with the idea of me fucking him with a strap-on dildo, and how he had enjoyed it and why, and she began to open up to the idea of penetrating her man. I told her that she should start slow. She should just slide a finger into his ass and get used to it before she bends him over and penetrates him with the strap-on cock. And to also make sure that the strap-on had plenty of lube on it so that the experience of penetrating her husband was enjoyable for him.
There are many reasons why a man may want to be penetrated with a strap-on or other toy, for example, he may just enjoy being the man in a passive role in strap-on sex. Or then again, it may be the stimulation of his prostate gland that my husband says drives him to a new orgasmic plane when i massage it with a dildo or other toy.
My advice, open your mind, and tell him to spread his legs! You will probably enjoy it too!
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January 16, 2010 at 12:00 pm
bim
Hello Ms Jessica,
As always, i love your posts and i love this one especially. We should make pegging common and get rid of all the complications around it. Pegging is what I love the most in sex. Wish I can find a woman like you. I don’t know why they hide while we know there are many women into pegging.
bim